sábado, 7 de diciembre de 2013

On dating

What to do and not to do when it comes to finding your prince charming.
First of all if its your first date, AVOID talking everything about your life, some girls are in a hurry to lay all their cards on the table, they talk absolutely everything, if they feel they should lost weight (showing insecurity), if they got a C on chemistry, family issues, about how bad was their relationship with their ex, and worst of all, there are many desperate ones, telling him how much they want to have children and become a housewife as soon as possible (scary). I know it sounds crazy, but it really happens, no wonder why boys run away from them as fast as they can, the last thing they want is a second date with the psycho.
The worst of all, is that after this first date you go back to you home happily thinking that it was the best date ever, and that he probably won't take long to call you again to set up the next meeting; when in reality the boy heads back home thinking "I'll never going to see her again, what a nightmare". Then these girls wonder why they never called them back or answer their phone calls.
So a little advice: Never annoy them with your tragic stories from your childhood, open up yourself step by step, don't say all your life story on the first time you meet him; please keep a little MISTERY so he wants to know more about you, and let him get to know a bit of you, date by date. 
Also one more thing I don't understand about woman (not all, but many), that as soon as they get the man and start a relationship, they stop to go to the gym, they don't exercise as they were used to, they eat more, they dress poorly, they don't even use make-up, they became careless and lazy, or even get their hair done, if they use to get manicure and pedicure now they don't even care about it. They don't totally look like clochards but they don't look as good as before, as good as when their boyfriend called for them. This is stupid, and a good way for the boys to get tired of having as a girlfriend a so-so girl. They prefer ALWAYS the cute one that never forget to take good care of her self.Respect your self and your body, with or without a relationship. You should always look your best! There are not ugly people, only lazy ones!




Always be yourself, don't try to impress no one, boys like girls that are cute and happy, with good matters, and that they are humble, and down to earth, no one like little spoiled princesses, who can't even stand their selves by their own. Boys are your partners, not your daddy's. They hate drama queens, so please RELAX. Being in a relationship is to enjoy, not a game of power, or not to have someone to complain the whole day about how shitty your life if. So be happy, and enjoy being with a true good gentleman.